Dear You,
You drive to work and the radio is on but you aren’t really listening. You are in the car but you are never really there. You have no control over your life right now, it is just moving without you and not in the direction you would prefer. How do you change this path that you cannot control? You want your body to listen to you and you are making all your actions reflect those things you want; yet, the opposite is occurring. What is your next move?
It is devastating that whatever life you wish to lead has to be crammed into 48 hours of the weekend and about 30-40 minutes between work and sleep. How can you have a child when your ideal times are probably during your working hours? How can you lose weight when you sit at a desk 8 hours straight without any active or movement in your heart? Aside from your waking up at 3:30am to squeeze in a good two hours of gym time, how can you compete?
You do not have control over your life right now. Will you ever? Years are flying by. You aren’t who you were before; you know too much now. How are you going to make it through the next shift of years? How are you going to handle possibly never becoming a mother? How do accept that the main function of your body, the sole purpose of your existence is faulted? Where do you go from there? Nothing will ever bring you enough joy to let go or accept a childless life. It can still happen but I am sorry that you have to struggle for everything that can bring you joy. I am sorry that you must fight hard for everything that is good in this world. I am sorry that “easy” isn’t a part of your world. I am sorry that you feel sorry for yourself.
But, fuck it. Because this isn’t it.
Me.